Occasionally I run across a new client, that like many, asks a lot of questions. I love questions. I would rather my clients ask 300 questions than leave one out that would make them buy or sell a home without knowing everything.
However, there are some questions that new clients ask that could get a Realtor in trouble. They are normal questions. Generally they are not hateful or misleading, just very tricky for an agent to answer. Often times, we can't answer it at all.
Here are some questions and why we can't, or shouldn't, answer them:
- Am I getting a good interest rate? Great question! But, I do not really know. If I said yes, I could be very wrong. As a Realtor I specialize in the Sales side of Real Estate. The mortgage industry literally changes daily. Mortgage related questions vary on MANY different factors. I may not know the complete answer, but I know excellent Mortgage Professionals that would.
- What should I offer? Great Question! A home is a personal and emotional decision. The home may be worth one amount, but is it worth it to you? First, decide what in your heart you feel the home is worth. I will then put together a list of Comparable Sold Properties and show you a range of what Comparable homes are selling for. This is absolutely the best way to make an educated decision. You should be in control of what your ultimate Sale Price is, I am your tool to help you get there.
- What do you think this home would sell for in 3 years? As a Realtor I have the ability to follow trends, but life and the Real Estate Industry is ever changing. There is no telling what could happen next year, or even next week. I would love to share the Market Trends with you, but keep in mind that nothing is for certain.
- Are the schools good? Great Question! I have 2 children and I want them to go to great schools as well. However, my child's experience may be different than another. Most school districts have a Report Card online that will show you how the school rates with the State in comparison with others. Would you like for me to send you the link?
- How is the neighborhood? This could be a good question too, but this is a BIG No No for an agent to answer in a few different ways. We have Fair Housing Laws to abide by. Also, trying to sell one neighborhood over another could be considered "steering". This could have Major Legal Ramifications on your agent. I probably have resources that can help you make a wise decision.
- Should I be worried about this on my inspection report? Great Question! Unfortunately, I may not know the answer. It is always best to get a licensed person out to take a look at it. i.e. Electrician, a/c and heat, Termite. These professionals can give you the ins and outs as to why you might want to consider a certain repair. Would you like the name and number of a few to call?
As an agent I am your partner to finding the right house and help you make the right choices. I will do everything in my power to get all of your questions answered. But if I say I can not answer a question, it may be because it is not my area of expertise or it could even be a violation of our Code of Ethics or law.
Please, ask questions. Even ask me the questions I listed above. If I can't answer it I would be more than happy to find a resource for you. The more questions you ask, the more I know you will make the right decision on a home.

Hi Stephanie,
This is very good. I'd like to use it, with credit to you of course.
Thanks, Doreen
Stephanie,
Interest rate..I am not in the mortgage business so I will refer them to the rate charts or a pro in that area. Offers should be based on what the range of value is or what they feel it is worth to them...i never refer to a specific number. How could I possibly answer the question what it will bw worth in 3 yrs? If they want to know the school ratings they should refer to many sites with all those statistics. Drive through a neighborhood to get a feel for it. Worried about inspections? I always say that a buyer is entitled to an inspection and that i am not an expert in that field...nor do I assume there will or will not be problems..that is why they pay the inspector. All these questions should be answered by that professional in that filed but i might point them in the right direction but never make recommendations about something I am not sure of.
"What will this home sell for in 3 years?" Now, that's a really tricky one! Can't imagine that any of us would definitively answer that one.
LOL.... i like that first question.
i cant tell you how many times the buyer's agent has told my clients that 'their lender' can beat that rate.
LOL.... i guess some buyer's agents are psychic.
Great post. I agree that it is important to differentiate for your clients the difference between what you can offer them as "fact" and what would merely be your "opinion". On a similar vein, our MLS recently sent us a warning against using language like "great schools" in MLS listing remarks...you could be fined. They offered this advice: say "Stephenson HS district" or "award winning school district". As long as it is fact rather than opinion you are okay.
Good Morning Everyone!
I am going to comment on everyone shortly...but Leigh just caught my attention. I think it is important to have all of the tools and resources together for RELO clients. I don't know about elsewhere, but in Houston answering these questions could be a MAJOR Fair Housing Violation. I refer all of my clients to a website that has statistics that contain information that is good for people even if they don't have kids.
Watch out, don't get caught by the Fair Housing Police. :) I'll be back to answer everyone in a little while. Gotta go set up the Insulation Guys outside.
Great post. We actually lost a client a few years ago because of the neighborhood question.
We were working with a young couple and had actually put in an offer on a home. Then her dad wanted to see the place, so we showed it to all of them again. Dad didn't really like the house. He asked us about the neighborhood because he didn't want his little girl in a "bad" neighborhood. We explained to him that we could not answer that question, but we told him to drive around and even gave him a website to check out.
He really was not happy that we refused to give him an answer. Long story short, he convinced them to rent a place for awhile instead of buying. The funny thing is that the home they were set to buy was below market value at te time, and is worth about $100K more now.
Steph~
I've bookmarked this and asked my whole team to review this post. I consider this a superb and valuable addition to our resource library here at Active Rain. Than you for sharing this and for putting it together in a way that really makes sense for our team and for our clients. Much appreciated.
Stephanie...
My answer to questions such as these is normally "I can't answer that but I will tell you who can" :)
It's also my standard of practice to inform potential customers that I am in fact bound by the C.O.E.
TLW...ROAR!
Oh. I forgot....
"What's the C.O.E.?" That is another excellent question :)
Stephanie,
I am amazed at the quality of your posts. Every time I read one of yours I learn something or see how a consumer could learn something. I wish I was as talented as you are in writing posts.
Great information, Stephanie, and congratulations on the feature. Tough questions, and there are others...is this area safe, what kinds of people live in the neighborhood, and so on. Obviously lots of things we can't answer, but providing options for buyers to learn the answers to their questions, letting them know why that is important, and clarifying why we cannot answer certain questions will normally work. It's hard especially for relocation folks since they really need help in getting the answers.
Jeff
Thanks Richard- I agree. We want to tell them everything, but sometimes we just can't.
Hi Francisco- Great way to handle the questions!
Hi Mana- You are right. They get frustrated because they think we don't care. That is NOT the case at all.
Hi John- That's a great policy!
Hi Chuck- You are right on Target!
Thanks Bob and Carolin- We do need to be careful.
Thanks Doreen- Let's talk about that one.
Hi Randy- I hear that all of the time. "Well, my last agent said we would not want to live there." WHAT!
Hi Lori- It is very east to give an opinion, but it is FACTS that they need. Great job telling them where to go.
Hi Kristine- So right! The questions CAN be answered. Just by the proper people.
Thanks Matt! I thought you would like that one. :)
Hi Denise- Good job telling them where to go!
Hi Gary- We could get in LOTS of trouble.
Hi Wayne- I want my clients to say "My agent found me the perfect house" NOT "Well, my agent said it was ok."
Hi Neal- You are so right.
Thanks Tim- You are so right also!
Hi Cyndee- Thanks!
Thanks Jennifer- I agree-always good to review.
Hi Diane- Don't you love that question. :)
Hi Tom- Maybe they are psychic. LOL. :)
Thanks Gary- Nice to see you stop by.
Hi Kelly- We have similar MLS rules here. They are VERY strict, as they should be.
Thanks Leigh- Great points you made.
Hi Jim and Maria- That's another one. The parents as the advisor. Don't you love it! Sorry that happened.
Hi JaneAnne- Thanks! I ran in to several of these questions yesterday. :(
Hi TLW- Nice to see you drop by. Many people do not understand COE. I guess that is another post. :)
Hi David- LOL! I will tell them that and then have them sign the "Just Kidding Disclosure".
Hi Eric- I run into the same questions here. I have received soe VERY shallow questions over the years. School stats are always the best way to go.
Thanks Jeff F! What an amazing compliment!
Hi Jeff D- There are lots of other questions. I just didn't want to bore people. :)
Hi Ana- We need to be careful.
Hey Big Sis! It's amazing some of the comments that other agents make. Unfortunately many consumers don't know it's wrong.
Hi Mary- I do the same thing. One slip up could make us start looking for a different career.
This is a terrific post and one that I will share with agents that I am mentoring
in my office. It is always refreshing to a post like this one. Thank you. Pamela
Excellent post! Thank you!
I would like to share this with a few of our newer agents. Sometimes in the spirit of wanting to do the right thing, we wind up stepping on our own tails.
Great Post.
Questions like these always find their way to us. Being able to answer and not "step on your own tail" sure is key
Stephanie,
We get a lot of questions, too, most of which are very relevant to the mortgage process. And they are answered based on your knowledge of the subject. If you don't know the answer, I'd say so and add that I'll find out. Then there will be questions about an opinion, like where are interest rates going to be next week. You just have to say that no one knows, unfortunately, but this is the trend as of today.
Great post Stephanie, thanks for reminding us
Thanks for the great post. We have many relo clients coming into Seattle, and I almost always get the "is this a good area" question. Your suggestions are much appreciated.
Thanks Pamela- I'm glad it helped.
Hi Jeff- Thanks a lot!
Thanks Carol- It's easy to get caught up in the swing of things and spill the beans.
Hi Michael- Thanks and you are so right.
Hi Esko- You are so right. Consumers want an opinion, but what they really need is face which unfortunately is not always available.
Thanks Dianne!
Hi Kelli- That's a great point and Thanks!
Hi Chris- Nice to see you stop by!
Thanks Tracie- I'm glad it helped.
Hi Anne-Marie- Thanks for stopping by and you're welcome.
Hey Steven, BIG..BIG Trouble. :)
Hi Christy- Often times they are not easy at all.
Hi Joan, Thanks! I am glad that many people could benefit from it.
This is exactly what I was taught from my former associate broker!
I send them to the resource they are looking for. Each person is looking for something different in a school district, neighborhood, inspection report, etc etc etc. Nothing in life is perfect and I am not going to throw my personal opinion out there!
Stephanie,
Congratualtions on your feature. Very well deserved. Another one to be careful of is: is this a safe neighborhood?
Got to refer then to the local PD for that one.
Ginger
John L- What an amazing compliment! Thank you so much!
Hi Renee- You are so right. Anyone's opinion could be way off base.
Hi Jeff- You are right, the seller's disclosure could get us in a lot of trouble. BIG Trouble.
Thanks Ginger! The local PD is good for a lot of information. Thanks for mentioning that.
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Thanks Angie!
Hi Irene, these are important points to remember. Good Luck!
Hi Jeff, I have met a few. :)
Hi Jeffrey, Thanks! Always good to know a resource to send them to.
Great Post. I am always telling my clients that I'm NOT an Attorney, Inspector, Tax Consultant, Member of the School Board or any of the other professionals that you will need to contact for the proper answer to your question.
Very well put together post on questions that we confront daily. I should give your answers to my clients in advance. I am licensed in Texas as a home inspector, septic installer, termite certified applicator, real estate agent, loan officer. I started as an inspector many moons ago and work in the real estate industry today. It is so easy to assume that our clients should know better than to ask these questions because we field them everyday. However, to the consumer, they are very important concerns which deserve a helpful and professional response. Handling them delicately defines the difference between a fiduciary and a functionary agent. Thanks for your insight, Brad Brusenhan w/ Keller Williams in North Dallas, TX.
Stephanie - I haven't read the comments yet (Oh so many!!! Good for you for creating a great conversation!) but I truly love...
Am I getting a good interest rate? Great question! But, I do not really know. If I said yes, I could be very wrong. As a Realtor I specialize in the Sales side of Real Estate. The mortgage industry literally changes daily. Mortgage related questions vary on MANY different factors. I may not know the complete answer, but I know excellent Mortgage Professionals that would.
Let's go back a few years to the interest rates past -- double digits, 16, 18% -- and take into consideration what the interest rate is on most credit cards -- HECK YA you're getting a "good" rate!!! Joking aside, you provide a great answer!
Great post! and kudos to you for seeing both sides of the questions! It is obvious you put a lot of thought into your work! If I ever come to TX I'm looking you up!
Mary, funny you mention the interest rate thing. It's all relative isn't it. When I bought my house the BEST interest one could get was 8.5% Now people are freaking about 6.25%. Funny. Let's not talk about my Capital One card. :) I refied too soon and got 6.5%. Oh well. That's the way the cookie crumbled.
Thanks for stopping by!
Stephanie
These are some great scenario questions I get asked daily. I am glad you posted this to remind others of this because we can in trouble quick by answering them wrong
Thanks
Hi Pam, That's a great way to handle it! Good job.
Hi Brad, sounds like you have your hands full with business! But, it sounds like you handle it all well.
Thanks Bradley, It's funny how this was intended to be a public post. I'm glad it helped everyone! :)
Armando, you are so right.
Good information here that I'll be sure to remember next time these questions come up...Thank you!
This is the one area we are most likely to get us in trouble. You want to be helpful and your clients are unaware of the laws regarding real estate. We must all remind ourselves what can put us in hot water. Great post and great reminders.
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The equivalent questions for a home inspector are:
Okay, you might not want to answer this, but would you want to live in this neighborhood?
Okay, you might not want to answer this, but would you buy this house?
Thanks Bill, glad it helped.
Hi Brad, Thanks!
Thanks Irina!
Hi Steven, Thanks for the input.
Nice Job Stephanie!
Very will written and a interesteing read.. thanks,
Scot Walker
First Choice Real Esate
Houlton, Maine
www.countyfirstchoice.com
207-532-4500
Hi Partick- Thanks!
Thanks Scot!
Great post. The longer we are in the business, the wiser we become, and we may know the answers to some questions and yet not answer it, but direct them to the specialists. The people I tell them to talk to most often are 1. Their attorney 2.their accountant 3. the home inspector to explain the report.
Really good tips. Too often, in an effort to be helpful, an agent will open their mouth and insert their foot.
The intention was good and honorable, but the end result could be a mess. Sometimes, trying to service your clients is like trying to negotiate a minefield blindfolded.
Hi Gita, that is right. Always refer them to the pros. The more experience an agent gets the more pros we meet. I know I keep adding to my list. :)
Hi Steven, LOL at the minefield..but it's true. Being able to communicate the reasons why we can't explain it is very important.
Stephanie,
This is fantastic. Would you mind if I linked to this blog in my SWSU course for Buyer Agents?
Let me know!
Jennifer
Thanks Jennifer!
Sorry to repeat (this time WITH a login)
As a new agent, I find this advice to withhold opinion to be dissatisfying. Somebody that asks me about a school system or a neighborhood that I know a lot about would be getting less than they deserve. While I agree that you can point to valid resources to gather facts, informed opinion is what I want from an agent. I would hope to have an agent that can speak their mind without violating statutes. Am I being naive and unrealistic?
Stephanie,
Thank you for these important reminders, seems a little like walking on egg shells sometimes.
Good Grief! It was a lot of work scrolling to the bottom of your comments. I cheated, I did not read them all. Part of our training is teaching us where the lines are. If we practice law, we get in serious trouble, we have to discipline ourselves in several areas because we are taught facets of the other professionals business, but we are not the bottom line professional there. That goes for practicing law, doing home inspections (my inspector/advisor constantly stresses that I should not step into his turf), CMA's are not Appraisals, either--yet on real estate shows you hear them saying the REALTORs appraised value...
I like for my clients to be as empowered as possible: Getting their free credit reports, analyzing them for errors, use common sense in cleaning it up, then knowing their credit score. In my humble opinion, once you know your credit score, if you have been honest with yourself, then at http://myfica.com you can get a general idea of what interest rate you can expect to pay. Of course, some lenders may slap my hand even at that point.
In the big scheme of things, paying for the appropriate professional services is a drop in the bucket compared to the price of a home, or getting stuck in a nasty transaction.